I have always been confused about the mystery of love and desires. What actually we desire and what’s the purpose of it has always been in my thoughts. The sufferings and emotions we came across are endless and sometimes don’t make sense.
When we have some problems we often race to a person who may solve it for us.
It’s never possible for an individual to make out through it, on their own, maybe it’s a math problem for a kid who goes to his teacher to solve it for him or maybe it’s a teenager going to his or her college’s counselor.
We all have problems and our own ways to solve it. But what will you do when you don’t have anyone to solve them for you, then you are on your own and it’s when you feel difficult like you have been strangled or something, a complete chaos.
The heart hurts when you feel being humiliated beyond repair, when you cry without tears, when the world don’t make sense to you, when with the one you share don’t understands you, when you feel bleeding without injury, when you feel dead still breathing....
When we are kid it’s easy to figure out what you want and so it’s easy to fulfill it. But our mind is always developing even when we are sleeping. You get many thoughts at the back of it ….the desires and expectations become endless and we lost in it, thus nothing seems to please and we just keep on living…..
What makes our feelings?? We all know its brain, not heart … our ancestors and geniuses had named the wrong organ of our body as heart… the part of the brain which builds feelings is heart not the hotdog sized red beating organ in the left side of your chest down the lungs!! The one we c
all as heart is a mere pump and has got nothing to do with the feelings!
A kid gets hurt when he is not allowed to do what he wants, but for older ones it hurt when they can’t do anything even if nobody’s stopping them. The questions are countless without ANY answers at all. The books we read all tell the same obvious things in their central idea! No matter how beautifully and philosophically it had been written. It’s just the other way round…….
-Give and take-
As a business man, the deals of type ‘give and take’ are easy and certainly are beneficial. You don’t have to wait for your client to pay you back, and so in relationships, both being completely different, this rule fits in.
When you like someone you want it to like you back and when it is not so you feel pain, it’s not because you are in some kind of loss or something its cause of the expectations.
Expectations?? Is it the doorway between sufferings and joy? Is our life going to be better if we stop expecting?
Well I don’t know it either!
But that’s for sure that if you stop expecting, from life and peoples in it, you will discover an eternal calmness in your mind, but it is practically impossible. We are all bound with relations even if we don’t want them. And when there are relations we can’t stop expecting. It can be understand like this--- The first relationship we make is with our parents, and when we are just newly born, even if we don’t know to speak, we expect our parents to feed us and be with us! So it’s in our genes to expect and you can’t change it! Just know to whom you can expect.
But the major thing due to which we get hurt is when someone who really mean to you breaks the promise. The feeling that your loved one has changed and
is not going to be back! You just sit back and wait, wait for it to turn back, but it never happen! And you can’t do anything, and truth is also that you don’t fight when it’s not worth fighting……
-The words-
The words we speak can be broadly classified as good words and bad words, and again bad words can be seen as the combination of abusive and bitter words. But what makes bad words bad? It’s not like they are going to kill us or make us deaf! But hell yes! There is nothing worst then listening bad words (here I mean bitter words) from someone you admire or you have your faith attached!
Bad words are not bad! It’s just something said at the wrong time and place. Cause you don’t expect to listen something from you have feelings attached!
And here it goes again!!
Again and again, the confusion is here. Our mind is not literally under our control, no it’s freaking not. It makes worse situations itself and then finds the solution itself. But why? Why can’t there be calmness? A sweet solitude from thoughts and useless arguments going within us at the back of our minds?
Yesterday while watching a movie, I thought over the idea given in that, it was, “just imagine yourself not having watched any of the movies or had read something about love, never had listened to any music with lyrics, you might not have treated your heart as a part of your body responsible for feelings, it would have been only an organ to circulate the blood to your whole body as gained in knowledge by the biology books.##
These all stuffs thought us about the pain, heartache, lust, dreams, sufferings and most importantly the undefined word 'love' , just go ask any of the writer if he or she can tell what it means even if they had written a total of their millions of pages idea over it!
-The Biggest Terrorist-
Its not Osama bin laden! It’s the person who first used the word love! He made this word love no one knows why and it spread over the whole earth from generations to generations like a cure-less plague and left us with a fear of losing someone we love, the pain of despair and the terror of being alone . if it’s not terrorism then what it is?
-more to come…-
so better stop.....
its all seems simple but the design of life is made by the most superior engineer god...which is very complicated...
but if you follow certain rules you can rule...